feat: add Gateway API support (#1073)

Add full Gateway API support for exposing Gitea via HTTPRoute, TCPRoute, BackendTLSPolicy, and ClientSettingsPolicy resources.

New templates:
- `httpRoute.yaml` — renders an HTTPRoute with configurable
  parentRefs, hostnames, and rules (defaults to PathPrefix `/`)
- `tcpRoute.yaml` — renders a TCPRoute for SSH traffic
- `backendTLSPolicy.yaml` — renders a BackendTLSPolicy for
  encrypted backend connections with required validation config
- `clientSettingsPolicy.yaml` — renders an NGINX Gateway Fabric
  ClientSettingsPolicy to raise the request body size limit

Infrastructure:
- `gatewayAPI.enabled` global toggle gates all resources
- Resources grouped under `gatewayAPI.core.*` and `gatewayAPI.nginx.*`
- Helper templates extracted into dedicated `_*.tpl` files
- Service name helpers (`gitea.service.http.name`, `gitea.service.ssh.name`)
  extracted into `_services.tpl`; service templates renamed to camelCase
- `ROOT_URL`, `DOMAIN`, and `SSH_DOMAIN` auto-resolve from
  `httpRoute.hostnames[0]`; `httpRoute.tls` switches to `https`

Documentation:
- New `docs/gateway-api.md` with topology examples, BackendTLSPolicy
  setup, sectionName guidance, SSH considerations, and NGINX body
  size limit configuration
- `.github/copilot-instructions.md` with project conventions
- README parameter table auto-generated via `make readme`

Tests:
- Helm unit tests for all four new resource templates
- Config tests for hostname/TLS resolution from Gateway API values

Co-authored-by: Todd Marimon <toddmarimon@gmail.com>

templates/gitea/route.yaml

@@ -20,7 +20,7 @@ spec:
   {{- end }}
   to:
     kind: Service
-    name: {{ $fullName }}-http
+    name: {{ include "gitea.service.http.name" . }}
   port:
     targetPort: http
   wildcardPolicy: {{ .Values.route.wildcardPolicy }}